As is at any party at any club, there may be some exceptionally good looking people and the rest of the people average looking. All guests should make an effort to look as presentable as possible and to take care of personal hygiene. Don’t feel intimidated, we’re all here to have a good time!

No, you are here to experience your fantasy, like everyone else. Each of us wants to experience something different, so don’t feel obliged to do anything that isn’t part of your fantasy.

As a member of the site, you will be able to view the verified profiles of other members. Should they accept your friend request, you can begin chatting. Try to be classy, yet charming. A great, non-creepy starting point is to simply ask the other person/couple what their fantasy is…

Try to be as relaxed and natural as possible. Simply make some friends at the bar or at the dining area. The night will follow a natural progression towards "playing". A great ice breaker question is to ask the other person or couple "So, what is your fantasy?" If they are into you, they’ll give you a clear flirt back, if not, simply enjoy the conversation and then move on at a polite, appropriate moment. Never take a "n" personally, it might mean "not right now".

Singles are most welcome to experience the Lifestyle, but you should always be on your best behaviour and remember that this is primarily a couple’s arena - so don’t fall in love!

We strongly encourage our Life stylers to make use of the free condoms provided at the venue. It is entirely your responsibility.

Absolutely not! It’s all up to you. Do not be forced into anything you do not feel comfortable with. As with any fantasy remember: first discuss the idea with your partner, at home, before getting involved with anyone at a party.

Yes. Nexxxus has on-site secure parking including gate control. Being within easy access to the N1 also makes it Uber friendly which we highly recommend meaning you can have that extra drink, relax, and get home safe.

We have only seen this sort of thing happen a few times! But, if you find yourself in such an awkward experience, just remember that they are also seeing someone they know! You’re all in the same sexy boat. A friendly greeting and some humour will help to break the ice. Such a little secret creates a special connection.

Polyamory is an arrangement between more than 2 people, to be in a romantic relationship. The key difference from swinging is that this is a somewhat ongoing arrangement, rather than a once off sexual fantasy and that it is understood that each partner will develop an emotional connection with their boyfriend/girlfriend. This is accepted, understood and part of the agreement.