As is at any party at any club, there may be some exceptionally good looking people and the rest of the people average looking. All guests should make an effort to look as presentable as possible and to take care of personal hygiene. Don’t feel intimidated, we’re all here to have a good time!

No, you are here to experience your fantasy, like everyone else. Each of us wants to experience something different, so don’t feel obliged to do anything that isn’t part of your fantasy.

Under no circumstances. Only people who have made a reservation and whose names are on the guestlist will be allowed into the venue on the night of an event. As a Golden Ra member, you become eligible to be handpicked by Lara and her team, to receive personal invitations to our highly exotic, private lifestyle parties.

As a member of the site, you will be able to view the verified profiles of other members. Should they accept your friend request, you can begin chatting. Try to be classy, yet charming. A great, non-creepy starting point is to simply ask the other person/couple what their fantasy is…